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rekindling
"); document.write("I want to rekindle so badly but know it will have devasting effects on my husband and children. I ask myself, \" What did my ex give me that my husband cannot.? Then I ask the opposite question, \"What does my husband give me that my ex cannot?\" My husband always wins in the long run. HOWEVER, that does not help when I'm dreaming about my ex every night for the last 20 years. HELP!. Lynette"); document.write("
Some advice
"); document.write("I'm not a psychologist or anything, but I've learned that relationships are not about what you can get out of it, but about giving. It's not about finding the right partner, it's about being the right partner. Love is something that needs a lot of work. And believe it or not that will be true with regards to your first love too. Once all the emotions settle down, you'll have to work at that relationship too. Wouldn't it be so much better to focus on the husband and kids that you were blessed with? A love that has been tested and is being tested and is still winning?. G"); document.write("
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