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document.write("<h5>Incompatibility - relationships</h5>");
document.write("This is so true,and I quote : \"This sounds very harsh but the point I am trying to get across is twofold. Firstly, find the root cause of the problems in your marriage without citing incompatibility and opting out. Secondly, when you've found the root cause deal with it, in this marriage, before it's too late. \"<br /><br />I work as an Imago Relationship coach. I explain the above concept to couples by using a metaphor. Conflict is the \"sneeze\" of a cold. A sneeze is a physical SIGN that there is an underlying cold or perhaps flue. The sneeze is NOT the PROBLEM. The cold is. And therefor doctors will treat the cold;not the sneeze. In the same way,is conflict in a relationship just the sign that there is an underlying \"hurt\", unfulfilled or unmet need,or a lost part (emotional) that must be reclaimed.<br /><br />And the therapy in this case,according to Imago Relationship, is the Marriage or the relationship.<br /><br />Where a doctor will prescribe rest and vitamin C to treat the cold,the Imago therapist/coach will introduce : The Dialogue.<br /><br />If interested, please contact me on my emial : grete@mweb.co.za.<br /><br />. Grete Becker");
document.write("<h5>some sort of glue</h5>");
document.write("Yeah, marriage is give and take and each spouse is of the opinion he/she gives more than the other person.  After 40 year with one woman I can say marriage is NOT easy.  Look for one root?  The moment you find it there will be another one tripping you.  Don't try and remove all the roots, it's impossible.  There is something else that keeps this seemingly impossible contraption called marriage from falling apart.  I don't know what it is.    . jaycee");
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