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document.write("<h5>guyland?</h5>");
document.write("i've heard that before - <br />Why I Am Leaving Guyland<br />Peter Pans aren't as happy as they seem.<br />http://www.newsweek.com/id/156372. freddy");
document.write("<h5>Advice??</h5>");
document.write("This \"advice\" coming from a woman who has had numerous failed relationships. A little jealous maybe? Most of the men and women I knew that slept around never found happiness with anyone. They are now lonely miserable old people. That perfect partner is a figment of imagination conjured up by Mills & Boon. No man wants a second hand woman and no woman wants anothers' trash.. David");
document.write("<h5>contract !</h5>");
document.write("Please can someone shut lucy hunt up , or shoot her! Let's get funds together and get a contract on her , #### she is boring!. Mark Farrell");
document.write("<h5>I agree</h5>");
document.write("I've forwarded you're article to all my friends - and I think we should start a club for those husband wanters.<br />lol. Dorris Day");
document.write("<h5>What are you guys on about?</h5>");
document.write("I really do not understand any of this Lucy bashing.<br />I find her writing fresh, to the point, relevant and from a perspective rarely heard of - the woman's perspective.<br /><br />I am a guy, happily married with a 14 month old son.  I can honestly say that I have \"settled\" in the past and if I knew that my friends could see my suffering as Lucy sees her friends' suffering I would have bailed out of those relationships a long time before I finally did.<br /><br />And no - I do NOT crave an evening with Lucy - before someone finds it funny to interpret my comment in any other light other than me trying to throw my support behind her.<br /><br />Lucy - I hear you!. Vlam");
document.write("<h5>Can you taste Desperation?</h5>");
document.write("Lucy, I SO agree with you, even from a 32 year old, Cape Town males perspective!  <br />Drop me a line, we really should do dinner? <br /><br />PS I think I saw your French guy on the Promenade the other day. All I can say is when in Rome.... Kev");
document.write("<h5>Stay on the shelf</h5>");
document.write("Mmm.. I've been thinking about this quite a bit lately and I've come to following conclusion: you can only meet the girl of your dreams if you're single. So be confident and stay single until the right person crosses your path. They will eventually! ;-). Sean");
document.write("<h5>Can you taste desperation?</h5>");
document.write("From a mid-twenties Capetonian whose friends are all marrying their high-school, or just post, sweethearts... :) Lucy and Sean... Couldn't have said it better myself!<br />. Fiona");
document.write("<h5>You'll end up divorced</h5>");
document.write("Hi Fiona. As a mid-thirties former Capetonian now living in Joburg I'm amazed to see how many woman out there, in their early 30s, who are divorced. Probably where your friends will end up, unfortunately!. Sean");
document.write("<h5>spot on</h5>");
document.write("Come on all you bashers ... this article is spot on, and I don't even live in SA!. jd");
document.write("<h5>Totally </h5>");
document.write("Lucy I completely agree with you. I have had numerous long relationships in my twenties which i clung to because i was prepared to settle for less, but i realied it would always leave a bad taste in my mouth. I eventually faced the obvious and now have finally met the man of my dreams, who feels the same way about me. Guys and girls, give it up if you know in your heart it's just not the right person, you are only kidding yourself if you don't!. Anon");
document.write("<h5>Not just the 20 somethings</h5>");
document.write("You go girl! I'm divorced and @ 50+ am meeting men who are trying to presuade me that marrying them is great insurance for old age. Oh please - no reason to get married just to have an old age companion. I'd rather be single and have my space to myself. And please don't shut Lucy up - she's wonderfully refreshing!. JJ");
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