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document.write("<h5>Clear signals</h5>");
document.write("I think dating is the way to go. I was dating a girl recently and by date 3 we were chilling out her place watching the Sunday M-Net movie. It all seemed very much like a relationship but it wasn't quite.<br /><br />I really don't like all these casual meetings and mixed messages. It's all too vague. As a guy, you ask a girl out to dinner and it's a clear signal: you like her and you want to get to know her better. Your cards are on the table and everyone knows what the gig is. And it shouldn't be interpreted in any other way.<br /><br />Girls should not be intimidated by this. Surely it's great to be invited out to dinner and to get clear signals? And if you accept, you're saying I like you too and want to get to know you!<br /><br />I think we should all give dating a try!. Sean");
document.write("<h5>Quite right</h5>");
document.write("I agree with you. Courting is a wonderful concept that allowed people to get to know each other one-on-one far better before any bodily fluids got exchanged. Especially in this day and age of rampant STD's. And there's also the air of romance, where a bloke would give up his evening of drinking with mates to spend with you alone over some candles and Sauvignon Blanc.<br /><br />It's the way to go.. Goldie");
document.write("<h5>Dating exclousively</h5>");
document.write("In this age of HIV and AIDS, I prefer exclusivity. Not on the first date or too early like that, but know your mind, and if you're interested enough, then give me exclusivity for the duration. If and when the relationship doesn't pan out ( however soon you may make that decision), let me know so we can both move on. And I'll give you same. . Damaria Senne");
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