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Online socialising

Besides being a powerful, useful and accessible resource for home learning, the internet can also play a role in the development of social skills in preparation for adulthood.

Children today socialise with each other in new ways, such as through email, Facebook and instant messaging on cell phones. While these forms of interaction should not replace human relationships, they can add to the experience and are likely to be a fact of life in their futures.

What to watch for?

Teach your children to practice 'safe' online social behaviour. This includes being aware that people online may not be who they seem, and the possibility exists for people to misrepresent themselves. Children should also never give out any identifying information like an address, phone number, photos or school name in public messages such as chat rooms or forums, and never reply to any e-mails, chat messages, or forum items that make them feel uncomfortable.

For parents who are still wary, Holgate suggests that they spend time with their children online to familiarise themselves with what the internet can offer and to have a balanced approach when it comes to monitoring their time online. "Keep a close eye and monitor the sites they visit. Set clear usage rules and ensure the computer is visible from where you are. An ideal area to set up your computer is in the living room. Ensure that you put the correct safety measures in place to protect them against threats and start enjoying this powerful source of learning," she concludes.

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