Affairs are meant to be secrets, but lately lovers have this new habit of developing a conscience at a later stage.

Joost van der Westhizen has been the latest victim of this. His former lover has decided to dish out the dirt on the family man.

Former athlete Charmaine Weavers has claimed that she slept with van der Westhuizen while his wife Amor Vittone was pregnant.

The former athlete says that she's pleased that van der Westhuizen has decided to come clean about his extramarital affairs. This follows his confession that he's the man that appeared in a sex video earlier this year.

Weavers told the Beeld newspaper that, "It's just such a pity that his confession was so selective, instead of rather confessing to everything".

When Beeld approached Van der Westhuizen about Weavers's claim, he said: "There were many sins and I did many wrong things. My plea for forgiveness in my book reaches wider than just the video; it includes my general past."

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